“First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage”, right? (Maybe not the baby at age 52…my age now lol) Or at least this is what you’ve been taught since you were a little girl.
In your mind you know something is not right. He is fully committed to you, he says he loves you and wants to be with you only. So why can’t he take your relationship to the next obvious level?
He doesn’t want to get married. He doesn’t want to get married. Yet. And at some point you can’t seem to think about anything else.
He Doesn’t Want to Get Married. WHY?
Does he actually love me like he says he does?
Is he waiting for a better option?
Am I giving my heart to someone who will eventually break it?
Am I doing something wrong?
Am I not GOOD enough?
Before You Know It, These Questions Start Destroying Your Relationship.
I know, because I’ve been there, and it almost killed my relationship with the love of my life.
I was so in love. I knew this was the only man I’d ever want to be with and I was sure he felt the same way about me. But when the marriage proposal didn’t come, I couldn’t help myself and asked him what’s going on. He told me he wasn’t ready for marriage yet.
He had many excuses – His career, not knowing what he wants to do with his life, fear of getting hurt and what not.
He asked me to wait. To stay with him because he loves me so much and “everything will be o.k.”.
I agreed and swore to myself to put it aside for a while.
But I couldn’t. The more I tried to stop thinking about it, the more I became completely obsessed with him not wanting to get married.
I analyze our relationship to death, trying to figure out what could be missing for him. I analyze myself to death, trying to figure out what’s missing in ME. It has broken my heart and it broke my spirit for a moment. I was convinced I was just not good enough – For him and maybe for anyone else.
Don’t allow this to happen to you please! I finally said “No More! I matter! I am God’s beloved” You can say the same too! Talk to your mountain!
Jesus is the only one who loves us the way that fufulling and complete. God will then in turn complete you on earth with the companion of His choosing! Be patient to wait on God’s best!
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