Recovering from pain or disappointments of any kind is not something that just happens to some people and not to others. It is a decision! You make a decision to let go and go on. You gather up the fragments and give them to Jesus and He will make sure that nothing is wasted (John 6:12)
You refuse to think about what you have lost, but instead you inventory what you have left and begin using it. Not only can you recover, but you can also be used to help other people recover. Be a living example of a confident person who always recovers from setbacks no matter how difficult or frequent they are.